What do I do with my hair?

Do you ever wish you could just have someone tell you?

or

Do you ever wish you could just have someone else's hair?

I have totally neglected my hair the past two years.

I didn't have time, nor the help to continue getting highlights,

which I had gotten since HS to make up for the lack of chlorine in my hair,

which made it lighter.

So,

I stopped getting them and let my highlights grow and grow out of pure neglect

If I am honest.

So.

Now what?

I would love to find a hair style that actually makes me feel attractive and compliments my hair.

So.

What do I do?

I have no idea.

All the great hair stylist are in Bakersfield,

which I have found a "fact".

Sorry bay area, but you are lagging way behind in my book.

I mean my first haircut up here after we moved back the

beautician used "dull" scissors, so I got my money back (literally).

But,

let's talk hair for a minute.

I have this problem.

Not only do I have "new growth" from having twins,

but I have hair that is somewhere in between curly and straight.

I've been cursed you see...with indecisive hair?

Now what?

Do I grow it long just to give it away, I'm almost there anyway

Or

Do I just search for a new hairstyle?

HELP.
At this point I just feel a little insecure going drastic...
You know.